Sunday, September 18, 2016

"A Heart of Mercy" (Matthew 5:7-8 part three)

Introduction

We are on the upward journey. We, hopefully, are being filled – filled with (the capacities of) the Holy Spirit … becoming the sort of person (and people) that God created us to be. This has become possible as we have been emptied of all the blockages to our growth. We have dispensed with pride and humbled ourselves (“poor in spirit”). We have mourned our sin, become emotionally honest, and repentant. We have opened ourselves to the new and become teachable (“meekness”). As we have been emptied of all selfish agendas and egocentric attitudes, we are ready to fully focus on God – we “hunger and thirst for righteousness” and thus can be filled with the Holy Spirit.

We are on the upward journey. In this way we can become like Jesus. The remaining ‘beatitudes’ guide us in our assessment of our growth. We might call these ‘check-points’. If we are truly being “filled”; if we are growing, and becoming more like Christ – then we should be exhibiting “mercy”, being seen as “pure in heart”, actively being “peace-makers” in everyday life, and dealing well with any set-backs … specifically showing courage in the face of persecution.

Blessed are the merciful

There are two basic ways we can be merciful!?!

1.     Compassion

·        Feeling for others – if we are not moved with compassion because of the needs, struggles and suffering of others, then we would have cause to look at ourselves and wonder why! Could it be that we are somewhat ‘battle-weary’ or hardened? Sometimes our own journey has understandably led us here. A sense of ‘compassion fatigue’ can build. But sometimes there are other factors … mindsets where our own desires are rated much more highly than anyone else’s needs. That is why, if we feel less than compassionate, when compassion would be rightly expected (as a Jesus-follower), we would need to go back to those earlier emptying steps … to see if we have really fully completed them. Are we humble, repentant, teachable and desperate for God enough?

Are we willing and able to let the struggles of others touch us?? Jesus himself, when confronted with disease and a great variety of needs, was moved with compassion to the depths of his being – he was often ‘gutted’ by what he saw. From this level of empathy, Jesus was truly able to demonstrate “mercy”. In this way, compassion unites us with the very heart of God. We should NOT be able to easily turn our eyes away from any tragedy and suffering.

·        Neighbour love – we know from Jesus’ teaching … that our ‘neighbour’ is actually anyone in need. Solidarity with a neighbour involves considering what it is like living in their shoes. This involves developing an understanding of, and empathy for, the difficult experiences that many people have endured. This involves being non-judgmental, slow to condemn, and not giving in to the sort of gross generalisations many people make (typified again this week by Senator Hanson). No doubt that Jesus was here challenging a society that generally lacked compassion (and held onto their racial animosities)!

Also, the “golden rule” (Matthew 7:12) indicates that we need to treat others as we wish to be treated ourselves. How would we like to be persecuted as a religious minority, or a victim of violence, forced to flee by any means available, and then be stuck in a detention centre (God knows where) having committed no crime! What sort of support and help would we desire (or even expect) when we were in that place of suffering? This then surely guides our response to others.

·        Acts of kindness – practical compassion means acting in kindly ways; which may in some cases be a very hands-on approach with the person next door, and people from here have been wonderful helpers of others, one-on-one, and through involvement with Anglicare and the like. On other occasions (on a broader scale), practical compassion involves a lot of advocacy i.e. talking, social-media activity, letter-writing, project development and fund-raising. If you are interested in this sort of conversation and activity, then we have just formed a group to work and pray in these areas.

2.     Forgiveness

Why do we need to forgive??? For both others and ourselves – to release both others and ourselves.

·        Letting others go – we need to forgive others … so that they might have the maximum chance to change and go forward. This does NOT mean that what they did (and we suffered) was in any way acceptable, but rather it means that the future is opened up … it is the future where potential lies. This does NOT mean that we give ourselves to more abuse, NOR does forgiveness mean that we will necessarily trust the person again – but it does mean that we won’t deliberately take actions that will make the problem worse.

In movies, books, and on reality TV, revenge is celebrated, so much so that ‘revenge’ itself is a bit of a cultural norm. It’s easy to fall into that mode of … because you have done that, you should get this! Justice becomes vengeance. ‘Sweet revenge’ has become acceptable. But this is NOT the way of Jesus, who looked into the face of rejection with the eyes of love and mercy. We should leave all of the accounting to the only wise judge.

Even where a person has not sought forgiveness (and remains seemingly unrepentant), offering forgiveness may open the opportunity of a better future. No-one had sought forgiveness … when Jesus, in torturous agony, opened his heart of gold, and said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing”. In this statement, Jesus forgave them [i.e. all those responsible for him being there on the cross] regarding any personal offence toward him, and also had a mind toward God forgiving them for this whole act of violence. In this way, a whole new future opened for all humankind. We also are forgiven for putting Jesus on a cross; in fact, we are forgiven because Jesus went to the cross in the ultimate act of self-giving.

·        Letting ourselves go – retaining bitterness is the most soul-destroying thing we can deliberately do to ourselves! Harbouring resentment or ill-will towards others demeans us. We need to dispense with bitterness. When bitterness is allowed to build, it destroys more and more relationships. Forgiveness, on the other hand, releases us. And not only that – we bring ourselves into the place of God’s mercy! Without forgiving others, we deny ourselves forgiveness. Through unforgiveness, we put up barriers between us and God. Only those who show mercy, receive mercy.

We shouldn’t just expect mercy, for that blessing, which is mercy, is only afforded to those who first show mercy themselves. That is why, when Jesus teaches us how to pray (Matthew 6:12, 14-15), it is here taken as a given, that we are a forgiving person, and because of this we have the right to ask for forgiveness ourselves. We will only be recipients of forgiveness, after we have forgiven all others ourselves. Only the forgiving, receive forgiveness; only the merciful, receive mercy! We cannot hold back on mercy, while expecting mercy ourselves.

·        Breaking the cycle of negativity – old animosities and hatreds continue to bring destruction through the generations. New disputes occur because of a sense of being offended against. Someone needs to stand up and put an end to this, with an act of radical forgiveness. Allan Meyer tells a story about the thief who comes back hoping for relationship, wondering how we might react to this! “Mercy is a heart attitude that moves a person to act in love – even when there are reasons not to”.

The blessing of receiving “mercy”

Let’s receive the blessing of mercy – being forgiving towards others (together with a heart of compassion) releases God’s stream of mercy toward us! And we really need this blessing … we really need mercy … we really need forgiveness!! We may have caused unnecessary hurt, we may have uttered an unguarded word, we may have treated someone unfairly, we may have broken a promise, we may have let someone down, we may have broken a trust, we may have been dishonest or selfish, we may have contributed to existing hostility, we may have just been apathetic. In your mercy Lord, forgive us and heal us!

Then, when God has forgiven us, we should be prepared to forgive ourselves. If God has determined to put aside our sin, then we should do the same. If we ever feel unworthy of forgiveness, then we could reflect on the extent to which God went to give us forgiveness – which shows how much God values us. However, if we continue to feel unforgiven, we need to consider whether we just might be holding back forgiveness (or holding tightly to some form of ill-will toward another), which may be blocking our own forgiveness and healing. “Our forgiveness of others is the outstretched hand by which we are able to grasp the forgiveness of God” (Athol Gill).

IS THERE SOMEONE WHO HAS HURT YOU … THAT YOU HAVE NOT FORGIVEN, AND THUS YOU ARE HOLDING ONTO BITTERNESS?
IS THERE ANYONE THAT YOU NEED TO FORGIVE RIGHT NOW??
LET THEM GO – AND RELEASE THE CHAINS FROM YOURSELF!!

DO YOU NEED TO SEEK FORGIVENESS FROM ANYONE OR FROM GOD?
WE WOULD BE HOPEFUL CONCERNING HUMAN FORGIVENESS!
BUT WE CAN BE CERTAIN ABOUT GOD’S FORGIVENESS (ONCE WE HAVE SHOWN MERCY OURSELVES)!!

Blessed are the pure in heart

What does it mean to be “pure in heart”?

·        Pure motivations – our “heart” is the place where our motivations (or our ‘drivers’) lie; these are the internal workings that determine our decisions and behaviour. To be “pure” is to be unmixed – with no ‘impurities’ … not mixed with other substances; or to have been purged of all undesirable elements or pollutants. Proverbs 4:23 reads, “Above all else, guard your heart; for it is the wellspring of life” (NIV); or, “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life” (NLT). So purity of behaviour rests in purity of heart.

Being “pure in heart” is about being truly in harmony with God’s ways, and seeing the things around us as God sees them. This is being really tuned in, even single-minded – no double vision! The “pure in heart” will never serve more than one master. Evil and darkness is rejected, worthless pursuits are shunned; light is embraced! In reading this verse, we are caused to check our motives, goals, desires and priorities – we can take an internal audit, asking: ‘what drives me’, and, ‘why do I do what I do’??

·        Honesty – when a heart is not right or “clean”, often anything goes, and easy justifications follow. To be “pure in heart” is to be sincere, genuine, the ‘real deal’, having integrity – outward actions and inward thoughts are in total harmony. To be “pure in heart” is to be moral and ethical in all our dealings, having good character, having clarity, being transparent (Oxford meaning: free from disguise) … then maybe even translucent; to be clearly/obviously set apart … for a purpose (i.e. “holy”). Using the simple basic ‘yes’ or ‘no’ avoids being loose with commitment. The “pure in heart” will have straight honest open communication. In this way, the “pure in heart” will be very naturally able to critique negativity, falsehood and evil. “Why don’t people come to church”, we sometimes ask – this is what they need to see … the “pure in heart” … have they seen it … will they see it??

·        Resources – the resources of the “pure in heart”, along with the Holy Spirit, are prayer, worship and bible study. Each of these connects us with God, who is, of course, the very essence of purity and holiness. The more we pray (individually and in groups), the more we worship together as the church, the more we search God’s Word (individually and together) for truth and understanding – the more we will sense, know and see God.

For they will see God

In fact this is the blessing for the “pure in heart” … “seeing” God. In this way, the “pure of heart” will hold up under pressure, and will likely make a huge difference in the lives of many. As God is the epitome and the definition of ‘purity’, only the “pure in heart” can truly see and understand God for all of who He is. How do you rate on the “pure in heart” scale? Be encouraged … we are works in progress.

Let God in to purify your heart, and more and more we shall see God in all his wonder, beauty and majesty. We see God’s brilliant creation every day, and the provision of sun and rain, and all the other resources we need. But human lives too, can demonstrate God’s greatness. Let’s be part of God’s grand design! As God looks upon the heart, the “pure in heart” are able to see God.

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