It’s 6 AM! The day is
beginning.
Paul says here (Philippians
4:4) for us to, “Rejoice in the Lord”. Sometimes this is difficult, not just
because it’s morning, but because of a variety of circumstances, some of them
quite difficult. Life naturally brings all sorts of storms, pressures and
trials. So to be in a position to “rejoice”, we sometimes need to gain some new
perspective on our situation. We want to find some way of being able to start
each day with a mind to “rejoice”. This might mean that we have to accept that
life is fragile, and because of this, each and every one of us is vulnerable to
whatever dangers and tragedies life throws at us.
Faith doesn’t mean we are
exempt. A relationship with God, even a deep one, does not remove us from the
frailty of a human body. Stuff just happens. There are risks and
vulnerabilities in life. Faith is what happens in the midst of any such
challenge. And dealing well with setbacks, hurt and disease, does allow for
growth in our spiritual lives. Working creatively through challenges brings new
possibilities … being wiser, better resourced, and more trusting of God. As we
experience growth in our relationship with God, and in our effectiveness within
God’s Kingdom, we can wake up rejoicing.
We don’t want to have to
pretend. We should never feel we need to pretend. We should not
promote any preference for people to have it all together, with their
acceptance hanging on this … which means people tend to repress stuff or dress
themselves with extra layers. In the church family we should be able to be
real. So, when Paul says to “rejoice”, he means for us to openly follow the
paths of healing … that ultimately allow for rejoicing. These paths will
include receiving and giving forgiveness. This will likely mean allowing the
Holy Spirit the space to complete the work of renewal in our lives. This will
include getting counsel for those real trouble spots.
Paul suggests that a pointer
towards our spiritual health, will be our ability to “rejoice in the Lord”.
This doesn’t mean that we won’t have moments of doubt, or that some days will
disappoint us, or that some illnesses will persist. It does mean that down deep
we trust in God, and know that He has our best interests at heart. So if we
start the day, and feel we can’t rejoice … the question would be – ‘How can I
look at things differently, so I actually can rejoice in the Lord’? Here’s one
answer: because God knows and loves us personally, and invites us into a
relationship with Him, and Jesus has cleansed us, and the Holy Spirit is
guiding us … we can “rejoice”! This sets us up well for the day, and we will
likely be a good person for others to run into and connect with.
It’s 9 AM! I’m engaging
with people.
As was just said, having
started the day with a mind to “rejoice”, this may make a significant
difference to how we are encountered by others. We may still have issues
concerning us – but we can be encountered as grumpy and impatient, or rather,
peaceful and considerate. Then of course, we may have started out with a
rejoice-filled spirit, until something happened … some bad behaviour that
impacted us and annoyed us. Annoyance and frustration is often just around the
corner. Those tourists who don’t really care about this town can get right up
our nose! How will we react?
Paul next talks about
“gentleness” (Philippians 4:5) – a mind and spirit fully set on rejoicing in
the Lord, can have this gentle appearance. This is to be open, welcoming,
hospitable, kind, unruffled and self-controlled … even under duress. We,
although still disappointed and concerned, are not personally disrupted
by the bad behaviour of others. And, in conversation, we are relaxed enough to
hear points of view that are different to ours, while still able to
respectfully share our thoughts (according to our values). When we feel
that we need to say what we think, or strongly advocate for a person or a
cause, we do so in such a way that won’t inflame situations or unduly cause
conflict.
There is here, a humble
confidence and a settled spirit, on show to the world – some might even
conclude, “The Lord is near”. This is like when the powers that be (in Acts
4:13), concluded that the disciples, Peter and John, were like they were …
because they had been with Jesus … they were “recognised as companions of
Jesus”. The Lord can be “near”, when we have been with Jesus sufficiently, to
model his sort of life attitudes. That is why I am currently doing a verse by
verse study of Mark’s Gospel – to try to get more inside the mind and heart of
Jesus … as he interacted with community. Jesus was both gentle, and wholly
committed to a cause.
We can actually be
gentle, because the Lord is near. God is our witness – our life
is hidden in God – God knows who we are in Christ. Our value and credibility
rests in Jesus. God gives us the measure of strength we need. When we are weak,
we can still be strong. It’s what the Lord has done in me. We don’t need human
aggression or competitiveness or drive, or to exert ourselves over others; we
just grow in the assurance that God is working in our lives (to His glory).
That’s why a part of the prayer dynamic that follows later is “thanksgiving”.
As we are thankful, we are acknowledging our trust in God’s wisdom – that God
will never do anything adverse to our welfare (Matthew 7:7-11). This
then helps puts worry aside. And this is good; and this is necessary!
It’s now 2 PM. A lot has
happened!
I’m actually starting to
worry about a few things! My mind is getting a little frayed! There are some
relationship tensions in the air! Some days start out alright, but then certain
things come to our mind or start to overwhelm us, or stress builds up, and we
start to think negatively again. As normal as this may be, this is never
going to help us! For Jesus said, “Who by worrying can add a single hour to
your life” (Matthew 6:27)? The scriptures continually draw the worried person
to prayer. God knows that our worries can involve deep concerns, so the Bible
doesn’t say, ‘just get over it’; rather the Bible has a solution for worry, and
that solution is to ‘pray’ (Philippians 4:6). And we should note that this
prayer is not in a void or vacuum, but is firmly directed to God!
{The story is told of a woman
who rushes to answer the home phone only to hear rustling noises at the other
end. On returning to her desk where she started out, she found that she had
accidently dialled her landline from her own mobile – she was calling herself.
Sometimes we think we are praying to God, but we are only talking to ourselves.
We haven’t fully focussed our prayer – “Our Father who art in heaven …”.
Sometimes this might be because we just want a quick fix … we are not
truly seeking out God, because we are not necessarily looking for
answers different to the ones we want.}
We do have the promise, “Draw
near to God, and he will draw near to you” (James 4:8a). Prayer should be an
open two-way conversation with God … our Creator and Saviour … who loves us
immensely and is completely faithful. In prayer, we get to express verbally
our concerns, and then let our faith, God’s Word, our encouraging brothers and
sisters, and the presence of the Spirit, all do their work on us. We can
then know the presence of God in all the situations for which we were worrying.
We no longer need feel alone!
Thus, prayer is the antidote
for worry! In “thanksgiving” we affirm that God listens to every word of our
prayers (and our wordless groans as well), draws alongside, meets us in that
place of need, acts on our behalf (and on behalf of the others that we have
remembered before his throne). God’s answer … the right answer … is close! We
can remain concerned, without worry, because we care; but the outcome IS in hand. “Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I
will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). The weight of what we have been carrying
has eased.
Worry would be such a
negative distraction for us, especially because we tend to worry about the
wrong things – sometimes our worry can be attached to our priorities being
askew. Jesus also said, “Seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness”
(Matthew 6:33) i.e. get first things first. When we get things into the right
priority, then life looks different. When we pray, having put aside worry, and
give first thought for the growth of God’s Kingdom, then we can be more clear
about our requests. And God already knows what we truly need. That text, “Seek
first the Kingdom … and his righteousness”, goes on to say, “and all these
things will be given to you as well”.
So, don’t worry; rather pray,
and think Kingdom’!! Then we will experience “peace” … the “peace of God” … the
“peace” that only God can give (Philippians 4:7). Our experience of salvation
starts with God’s gracious invitation, then comes our repentance, God’s
forgiveness, our commitment to follow Jesus through the Holy Spirit, then our
participation in making disciples. In living this way we find a “peace” that is
so reassuring, and such a blessing, that we can only describe it with a ‘wow’!
Challenges might remain, but we just see them in a different light; and they
don’t have the same power to make us anxious anymore! We have been with God,
and God will keep us calm.
This “peace” is so protective
(of our minds and hearts), that we would not want to move away from it
(or move out of its realm). This peace is so radically good, because it means that
we don’t have to strive for acceptance, or ever feel we aren’t clean enough, or
have to work to make things up to God. God’s forgiveness means that we are no
longer captive to guilt or shame or negativity or anyone’s else’s judgment. God
(through Jesus) has set us free from all this; and replaced it all with His
peace!! As we might cheer for our favourite sports team, except a whole lot
more – God is cheering for us! When playing the game, if we happen to drop the
ball under an opposition tackle, we can quickly rebound for the next contest.
It’s 8 PM now! I’m getting
weary.
Towards the end of the day,
we may get a little weary. We think we’ve done our bit, and we can let our
resistances down. We may let our mind wander a bit. It doesn’t matter so much
now … what we watch or read or do or say … or so we may think! This might be a
time we consider more private. But Paul has other ideas; we might say … very
high standards (Philippians 4:8). Yet, some things are always destructive or
wasteful.
We are to limit our thoughts,
or maybe better, continually lift our thoughts, to … whatever is true
[contains truth and sheds light], honourable [builds respect in people],
just [works towards fairness and integrity], pure [is untainted
by corruption], pleasing, commendable, excellent and worthy of praise
[things that work well for others and can be rightly and roundly applauded].
Quite a list!
How we think … what we think
about … is very important, because our thinking, and our belief system,
determines our actions. And it is our actions that describe our character. And
it is our character that we have to live with. And it is our character, that
others have to live with.
It’s 11 PM. Coming to the
end of the day.
We get to the end of the day.
We want to “rejoice again” next morning! As we go to sleep committed to another
day of following Jesus, we will have that “peace” which will allow us to rest
well. “Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep”*.
Verse 9 begins, “Keep on
doing …”, meaning … as one day follows another, this is our daily journey.
“Keep on doing …” what? The Philippian congregation are here referred back to
those things they have learned, received and heard from Paul, and seen Paul
doing (Philippians 4:9). However we know that these very things are the things
Paul is teaching and doing … as he seeks to emulate and point to … Jesus. Paul
previously said to the Galatians, “It is no longer I who live, but it is Christ
who lives in me” (Galatians 2:20). So it is, that we “keep on …” living for
Jesus. Jesus is the One we seek to make known.
And God’s peace will roll on
with us – “and the peace of God will be with you”. Thomas Kelly,
the Quaker philosopher, talks about the quiet centre that each person can have
inside them … that nothing can disturb. Christian mystics talk about the
‘throne of God’ existing in our innermost heart … which no storm nor temptation
could disturb. This is our nightly prayer*. Amen! And in the morning, we will
rise with the words, “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice”!
Off we go again!!
* Now I lay me down to sleep,
I pray the Lord my soul to keep.
May angels watch me through the night,
And wake me with the morning light.
I pray the Lord my soul to keep.
May angels watch me through the night,
And wake me with the morning light.
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