Sunday, May 1, 2016

"Loving as God Loves" (1 John 4:7-21)

Introductory Question

What words would you use about God’s love?

Introductory Comments

(a)  God can do no other than love, because God IS Love (verse 16b). God loves the world because God IS Love. The very nature or character of God is disclosed in love.

(b) As God IS Love, God defines what love is. God is the model for love (verse 19). Thus our love for God would not only be a response to God’s love, but also a reflection of this very same love. We return to God his own love – we love God with the gift of love he first gave us – we share back God’s own gift of love.

(c)  In this way we can also share God’s love with others … in a real sense, it’s not just our love toward others, but God’s love for others being transmitted through us.

(d) God is also the power that enables love to occur. God is not only named as “Love” but also does (lives out) “love”. God is the initiator of love (verses 10 & 19). God’s love then evokes our love. We can only love God because God has first loved us, and opened up the path of relationship.

(e)  How we interpret what God is doing … must factor in the concept that God is Love – that love sits behind everything that God does. Loving is not just one thing God does among many things, but rather all of God’s activity is loving activity! So if we can’t quite understand some particular response that we are attributing to God, we must at least consider God’s loving intentions behind this.

(f)   Love (”agape”) is clearly the central feeling, emotion, activity or character trait in life. Paul would agree with John – faith, hope, love … “the greatest of these is love” (1 Corinthians 13:13).

(g)  If anyone is walking a little heavy this morning, I would hope that just talking a bit about God’s love would allow to you walk a little lighter, perhaps even stepping a little higher off the ground.

What God’s Love is about

1.     God’s love is active – thoroughly engaging – broadly welcoming. Heaven was torn open so that God’s love might reach humanity. There seemed to be a major division between heaven and earth, one with perfect light (heaven) … and the other (earth) with predominate darkness. But God’s love makes connections between these. Thus God’s love can break through all sorts of boundaries, e.g. the spiritual boundary of sin, the emotional boundary of broken relationships, the physical boundary of sickness, the social boundary of cultural differences.

2.     God’s love is sacrificial – we have seen the greatest act of love in human history from God, in sending his Son, part of Himself, part of the Divine Community, to earth … meaning that Jesus would ultimately die (carrying the sin burden of all humanity … just imagine that weight). This, on a torturous cross, feeling alone and rejected. This – so that we could find relationship with God, with no guilt or shame to get in the way. Jesus surrendered divine prerogatives and gave himself for us (R B Hays).

Here is the ultimate way in which the Bible talks about love … verse 9 – “God sent his ONLY Son into the world so that we might LIVE through him”; verse 10 – “… [God] sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins; verse 14 – “… the Father has sent his Son as the Saviour of the world”. John Painter writes that, “Love is safeguarded from misunderstanding by the definitive demonstration in Jesus’ act of self-giving”!!! “God is love” may have remained somewhat abstract without this particular demonstration!

3.     God’s love is a constant – we can dwell in this mutual love relationship (verse 16b … “God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God, and God abides in them”). That’s a bit awesome! Let’s hear how another translation words that: God is love. When we take up permanent residence in a life of love, we live in God and God lives in us. This way, love has the run of the house… (The Message). As we dwell in this mutual love relationship, this love then spills over into the world … naturally it would.

4.     God’s love is transformational – it changes us as we respond to it … it changes everything – we become a ‘new creation’. God’s love changes us from … self-oriented people, on our own way, despite others, to … community oriented people, on God’s ways, with others. God’s love perfects us or completes us, but this perfection or completion is more a corporate experience (verses 12b & 17b i.e. “among us”). It is a radical God-inspired love for one another that completes us as a whole. It is in the community of faith that love has its ultimate fulfilment (G W Barker). And now, God’s love is set fully free to reach the wider community!

Our Response to God’s Love

Our text (from the 1st Letter of John) e.g. verse 7, makes it clear that those who have attached themselves to the God who IS Love, must themselves love others. Verse 11 says that the motivation behind our love of others comes from the quantity of God’s love given to us (“God loved us so much”). An inverted possibility is challenged in verse 8. If we do not love others, then this says something about our relationship with God. What?!? That is doesn’t really exist … that we are kidding ourselves!?!

Then the rubber really hits the road when we get to verse 20. This tends to personalise things a bit; this suggests that there could actually be a refusal to practically love a brother or sister when the opportunity sits right before us. Or what about this one from the previous chapter: “How does God’s love abide in anyone who has the world’s goods and sees a brother or sister in need and yet refuses [to] help?” (1 John 3:17).

Such a person, if they refuse to help, cannot really love God, and if they say they do (love God), then this scripture would call them a … “liar”! Such a person is ducking the truth that God’s love in the process of being returned (vertically) must he shared horizontally. Such behaviour betrays the character and essence of God. Love must have authenticity, the proof must be there for all to see.

If one loves God, that person cannot refuse to love the image of God on display in someone else (G W Barker)! Perhaps this could be understood … as needing to see the possibilities of what God could do in a person (in love) … if they were just in receipt of some measure of the love in us (to open that door). This could mean looking past many frustrations and disappointments, and exercising a fair degree of patience.

If we look at verse 12, we can see that if we do love others, we will know and experience that God lives in us, and that this will be noticed. Whereas no one has actually seen God, God can be seen through the way in which we love – the way in which we express God ourselves. In this way the reality of God’s love is given proof (for all to see)! And it’s not just love that will be seen, but God also.

The idea of love “perfecting” or “completing” us, mentioned earlier, also has some connection to how we might feel about judgment or experience fear. Verse 17 points out, that as we allow God’s love to abide in us and work its way through us, the spiritual journey we are on is being completed, such that we would have no concern about any judgment to follow. If we truly represent God’s love in the daily grind of this world, then we should have no fear concerning the next world. God’s love motivates our obedience (in love), which in turn completes us!

If we have any issues with fear in relation to God, then we haven’t truly experienced the depth of God’s love (refer verse 18). This may relate to one or more of the barriers that we talked about last week. God is NOT interested in punishing us; God is only interested in giving us the best experience of life imaginable. After all, didn’t Jesus die on a cross for this!! God’s love is so life-changing, that it casts out any need to fear how life or eternity may turn out.

Love who?

We might suggest that those foremost in mind here are those who are also in the Christian community or part of the same first century house church. And this makes sense with the broad diversity in the early church … Jew and Gentile, rich and poor, slave and free. Those who came to follow Jesus would have to embrace the notion of loving people across the boundaries that can often separate in the general community … race, financial position/class, occupation. This was a non-negotiable implication of receiving God’s love (i.e. passing it on).

But our general reading of scripture, and our knowledge that loving our neighbour has NO limits, means that loving others means all people (in our true and full representation of the God who IS Love). So let’s cast our minds as far as possible … those who give us a hard time … Jesus said love your enemies … those who we don’t know personally, but know very well that they have significant need … those we might ignore without too many conscience problems.

So If We Love as God loves, what will this mean?

In the same way as God’s nature or character is revealed in love, so must the reality of our relationship with this God be revealed in love. We can only know and represent God accurately through an attitude and application of his love. True to say that other people will only accurately receive our witness to who God is through genuine love.

1.     God’s love is active – thoroughly engaging – broadly welcoming.
Our love will be practical and inclusive.
We will find ways of meeting people at their point of need (whether it be emotional, physical, social or spiritual), and welcoming people across boundaries of difference. In the ancient world it was generally thought appropriate to only love those regarded as worthy of being loved (Stott). Maybe this would still be the case!? But God turns this over!! God spontaneously loves all in the hope of positive change. We will love our enemies, in the hope that they may become our friends (Matthew 6:43-48, Luke 6:27-28). We will be kind to those who have hurt us, in the hope that they will discover God’s grace.

2.     God’s love is sacrificial.
Our love will be sacrificial.
Something is sacrificial if it doesn’t take notice of what it will cost personally, or if notice is taken, it makes no difference. We will engage in humble service of others – not from any sense of superiority, but as people touched by grace. This will be generous, and often take us out of our comfort zones. This is because we ourselves were taken from our lowest point at incredible cost. No one who has been to the foot of the cross and found forgiveness there can remain selfish.

3.     God’s love is a constant.
Our love will be consistent.
Not just when it suits us or we feel like it. This is an act of our will … a decisive choice to be made – sometimes we will just have to act out of love whether we feel we want to or not, and let our feelings and attitudes come into line later. Who do you find it easier to love?? Is it your neighbour, or is it a stranger?? Different answer for different people I expect! Maybe it’s easier to love someone you see often; but then there may be many more occasions when you could fail to love! Maybe it’s easier to love and support a stranger in some financial or other capacity, because they have never said a bad word to us; but then as we never meet them or see them … could they easily be removed from our minds!?

4.     God’s love is transformational.
Our love would be forgiving, prayerful and hopeful.
Our love should provide every opportunity for people to connect with the God of transformation. Our love will bring forgiveness. Our love will take us into prayer (especially where this is our only avenue of love for certain people groups). Our love will cause us to be hopeful concerning the positive difference that God will make in people’s lives. Our love will be expressed by not just telling the story of Jesus’ sacrifice, but more so living the story of Jesus’ sacrifice. We might prefer to argue people toward faith, but the preferred method is to let love be the evidence for faith.

And this is most clearly evident, and more powerful, when God’s people pull it off together! Harrington & Absalom write: Remember that Jesus gave the world the right to judge us on one thing: the quality of the love we have for one another (John 13:35). We are to model a type of community that can’t help but fold the lost into the love of Christ.

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